House Manager / Butler

Job Title: House Manager / Butler (Live-In or Live-Out)

Location: McLean, VA 22101

Schedule: Full-Time; flexibility required based on household needs

Compensation: $90,000–$150,000 annually, depending on experience (DOE)

Benefits: Healthcare stipend

POSITION OVERVIEW:

A private family in McLean, VA is seeking a polished and service-oriented House Manager / Butler to support and oversee daily operations of their 10,000 sq. ft. residence. This individual will take pride in delivering exceptional service, maintaining household standards, and fostering a serene, spiritually grounded environment.

This role is ideal for a graduate of a recognized butler or formal service school (must be legally authorized to work in the U.S. citizenship or valid work visa required). The family, a young family of three, is seeking a calm and knowledgeable professional who can bring structure, service expertise, and a warm presence to a more formal household setting.

This is a unique position suited for someone who values mindfulness, service, and the “giving of oneself” through hospitality, care, and attention to detail. Working trials can be arranged and are fully compensated.

KEY RESPONSIBILITIES:

• Oversee all entertaining and table-service needs: breakfast, lunch, dinner, and afternoon tea.

• Serve family members and their guests with professionalism and discretion.

• Drive the family or guests on occasion (Rolls Royce) for airport pickups or other destinations.

• Supervise housekeepers and external cleaning teams.

• Manage all vendors including landscapers, HVAC, pest control, and pool service providers.

• Create detailed household protocol checklists for both family and guest preferences.

• Prepare guest rooms with personalized details such as preferred flowers, toiletries, linens, and reading materials.

• Maintain household order, schedules, and readiness standards for both daily living and guest visits.

QUALIFICATIONS:

• Formal butler or household management training strongly preferred.

• Experience managing or supporting a formal household.

• Calm, polished, and spiritually grounded demeanor.

• Strong service mindset with exceptional attention to detail.

• Familiarity with the DC–VA–MD region and experience working within the tri-state area preferred.

• Must be legally authorized to work in the United States (citizen or valid work visa).

• Excellent communication skills, discretion, and professionalism.

Family Assistant / Mother’s Helper

Job Title: Family Assistant / Mother’s Helper

Location: McLean, VA

Schedule:
Monday–Friday, 1:00 PM – 8:00 PM (35 hours/week)
Saturday, 10:00 AM – 8:00 PM (schedule to be agreed upon) Occasional Overnights with prior notice

Compensation: $35–$38 per hour

Benefits: Healthcare stipend, occasional overnights with prior notice

POSITION OVERVIEW:

A warm, active family in McLean seeks a nurturing and dependable Family Assistant / Mother’s Helper to support after-school and evening routines for three school-aged children (ages 12, 10, and 7). The ideal candidate is engaging, organized, and proactive, comfortable helping with children’s activities, household flow, and family errands. Comfort around a friendly family dog and flexibility for occasional overnights are required. This position is perfect for someone transitioning from babysitting into a full-time family assistant role.

KEY RESPONSIBILITIES:

Childcare & Family Support

• Provide attentive and caring supervision for three children after school and during evenings.

• Assist with homework, school projects, and reading.

• Transport children to extracurricular activities, playdates, and appointments.

• Prepare and serve healthy snacks and simple dinners for the children.

• Support evening routines including baths, tidying up, and bedtime preparation.

• Engage children in creative, active, and age-appropriate activities both indoors and outdoors.

Household Assistance

• Maintain general tidiness of children’s areas (bedrooms, playrooms, and kitchen after meals).

• Help with children’s laundry and light household organization.

• Assist with family errands, school bag preparation, and restocking children’s supplies.

• Provide light pet care (feeding, short walks, and letting the dog out).

Additional Duties

• Offer occasional overnight care with advance notice.

• Collaborate with parents to maintain consistency in routines and discipline.

• Ensure a safe, positive, and nurturing environment at all times.

QUALIFICATIONS:

• Prior experience caring for multiple school-aged children.

• Valid driver’s license and clean driving record.

• CPR and First Aid certified (or willingness to obtain).

• Excellent organizational and communication skills.

• Reliable, punctual, and discreet.

• Comfortable with a friendly household dog.

• U.S. work authorization.

Full-Time Nanny

Job Title: Full-Time Nanny – Private Household

Location: Arlington, VA

Schedule:Full-Time; flexibility required for days, evenings, and occasional weekends

Compensation: $90-$120k, relocation assistance available if needed

POSITION OVERVIEW:

A private family in Arlington, VA is seeking an experienced and nurturing Full-Time Nanny to care for their three young children (all under the age of five). The ideal candidate will have 3–5 years of experience in a high-net-worth or fully staffed private residence and a proven ability to balance structure, creativity, and warmth in a dynamic household. Applicants familiar with the DMV area are preferred.

KEY RESPONSIBILITIES:

• Provide attentive, developmentally appropriate care for three young children.

• Create and implement structured daily routines and engaging, age-appropriate activities (educational play, outdoor time, creative projects, etc.).

• Manage children’s daily schedules, including naps, meals, and extracurricular activities.

• Prepare and serve healthy meals and snacks for the children.

• Maintain children’s bedrooms, play areas, toys, and wardrobes in organized condition.

• Handle children’s laundry and assist with packing and unpacking for trips.

• Travel with the family domestically and internationally as required.

• Collaborate with parents and household staff to ensure smooth household operations.

• Maintain strict confidentiality, discretion, and professionalism at all times.

QUALIFICATIONS:

• Legal authorization to work in the United States.

• Valid passport (for travel).

• Clean background check and verifiable professional references.

• 3–5 years of full-time experience as a Nanny in a private or HNW residence.

• Experience caring for multiple young children simultaneously.

• Current CPR and First Aid certification (or willingness to obtain).

• Strong communication skills, reliability, and adaptability.

• Flexibility to adjust hours as needed based on family schedule.

• Must successfully pass a background check and drug screening.

• Must be a U.S.-born or naturalized citizen.

Personal Qualities

• Warm, patient, and energetic personality.

• Highly organized and proactive.

• Discreet, respectful, and aligned with traditional family values.

• Comfortable working in a fast-paced, high-expectation household environment.

Housekeeper

Job Title: Housekeeper – Private Residence

Location: Alexandria, Virginia

Schedule: Full-Time, Monday–Friday, 11:00 AM – 7:00 PM, with flexibility for occasional weekends or evenings as needed

Compensation: $40–$45 per hour

Benefits: Paid time off and holidays, potential health benefits after probationary period.

POSITION OVERVIEW:

An experienced and detail-oriented Housekeeper is sought to maintain a 5,000-square-foot private residence in Alexandria, VA. The ideal candidate will take pride in creating a well-run, immaculate home through consistent cleaning, organization, and care for fine fabrics, linens, and household surfaces. The role requires a service-minded professional who values discretion, reliability, and a proactive approach to household upkeep.

KEY RESPONSIBILITIES:

• Perform daily and weekly cleaning of the home, including dusting, vacuuming, mopping, polishing surfaces, and scheduled deep-cleaning tasks.

• Maintain kitchens, bathrooms, bedrooms, and common areas to the highest standard of cleanliness and order.

• Manage laundry and ironing, including proper care for fine fabrics, linens, and delicate garments.

• Organize closets, pantries, and storage areas for efficiency and accessibility.

• Change and maintain bed linens and towels on a set schedule.

• Perform light food preparation or assist with simple meal presentation as needed.

• Restock household supplies and report low inventory or maintenance needs promptly.

• Coordinate with vendors or service providers for deliveries, dry cleaning, and household repairs.

• Maintain strict confidentiality and uphold professionalism within a private household environment.

QUALIFICATIONS:

• Minimum of 3–5 years of experience in a private household or luxury hotel setting.

• Strong knowledge of fine-surface care, cleaning products, and garment care.

• Excellent organizational and time-management skills with a proactive, self-directed work style.

• Ability to follow instructions and adapt to employer preferences and household routines.

• Trustworthy, punctual, and discreet.

• Valid driver’s license preferred; background check required.

• U.S. work authorization required.